Assalamualaikum....
It's been a while since my last post.
What I want to share this time is about "independence"
Well, I am currently furthering my study In Johor Bahru, which is very far from my home town. The first thing that had crossed my mind when I got the offer a year ago was that I'll need to learn how to be more independent because I've never been separated from my family this far.
Throughout the one year that I've been here, I think I did learn a lot on how to be more independent. It's because, here everything is so expensive. Lots of things need lots of money. I am currently working part time at a shopping complex and I'm doing a small business with my cousin. I did all these works 'cause I don't want to burden my parents with monetary issues. They've sacrificed too much for me.
Being a student, an athlete and a part time worker requires me to manage my time efficiently.
And Alhamdulillah, so far I still can.
So all I wanted to say was that sometimes we need to get out of our comfort zone so that we can learn and get to know the reality of this world. Learn to be independent because we are not gonna get the help we wanted all the time.
Assalamualaikum w.b.t..
Hey guys.. how are u??
ok... today I wanna share with u guys the result of an experiment that I've been working on for the past 3 months.. hihihi..
Well, I tried the TUDUNG LABUH. The the one yg ustazah pakai tu.. haaaa.
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Ok and the result is.....
Jeng jeng jeng..
Alhamdulillah I like it..
It makes me feel more secure and protected.
I wanted to continue wearing it, but my lifestyle as an athlete tak mengizinkan.
I mean i tak boleh lah ke padang dgn baju kurung semua kan..
But I'm trying my best to cover my aurah..
Even tak bertudung labuh yg mcm tu, still i akan labuhkan tudung I..
Islam pun menyuruh kita as women, untuk labuhkan tudung.
And yes, pakai tudung labuh tu tak wajib, tp wajib labuhkan mengikut syariat..
Wallahu'alam...
Do pray for me, so that I'll istiqamah in trying to change for the better...
InsyaAllah..
Till then sayangs, Assalamualaikum...
Assalamualaikum w.b.t.... hey uolls!!!!!! pe kabor?????
hope everyone are doing fine..
well me??? hmmm... quite good i think.. errr.. i hope so..
It's been like forever since my last post...
well.. sorry uolls.. iolls busy+malas+penat=no post
muahaha..
cinta, love, amore, al-hub
these are the words we use to describe the feeling that we feel towards someone or something that we like in an unusual way.
when we are experiencing "love" we will care, feel attached more than we usually did..
cinta itu fitrah..
Allah never forbid us from wanting someone and to be loved..
But, in order for us to execute our heart desire, He had provided the best way and manual book for us to refer and follow.
how???
well....
jeng...jeng..jeng..
This is practically the one and only legitimate way..
hmmm...
I bet mesti ada yg ckp
"kenapa tak boleh couple pulak? We never did anything wrong.. Bukannya kitorang berdua-duaan.. Jumpa dkt rumah. Ade orang temankan. Kitorang sentiasa remind each other utk solat, tlg kejutkan subuh, kan baik mcm tu?? Kitorang ni couple Islamic lah.. Tak de nye nak mendekati zina.."
hmmm.. "couple"..
even the word itself had said it all clearly.
My dearest muslim brothers and sisters, there are NO such thing as couple islamic.
Allah berfirman: ولا نقترب الزنا "dan jangan kamu menghampiri zina"
ever wonder why Allah tak sebut je jangan berzina??
Well, Allah is indeed the all knowing.
For he the one who created us, he knew that our faith is weak, and we always have the tendency to disobey Him.
Zina bukan physically sahaja..
Bila kita bercakap telefon malam-malam, meluahkan rindu dendam, gunakan panggilan yang manja, itu dah dikira zina.
Zina yang mcm mana? Zina pendengaran.
Bila kita asyik dok teringat je dkt girlfriend, boyfriend kita tu, pon boleh jadi zina. Zina hati.
Bila jumpa, tgk si girlfriend pakai cantik, comel, cun je.. dlm hati ni dok rasa geram.. mcm nak cubit-2 je kalau boleh ye.. pon kita dikira berzina. Zina mata/pandangan.
Subhanallah.... Sebab tu lah tak boleh couple..
Syaitan tu, cerdik sgt.. Dia dok cucuk sakan..
If we say that, no such thing will ever happen, close our eyes and ask a question to our heart..
"Are we really capable of rejecting and repelling the seduction of syaitonirrajim??"
That's why prevention is better than cure..
Before we even involve in the game of syaitan that always try to astray our faith, why don't we just avoid it..
haaaa... kan ke senang mcm tu...
But ade yg cakap, couple sbb nak kenal, baru boleh kahwin..
There's an arabic saying that goes:
كل من الخطيبين كذابون
"setiap yang bertunang itu sedang berdusta"
so, if we say that we "couple" because of we wanted to get to know each other, trust me it's just a waste of time.. we'll never actually know people's true colour until we stay together with them.
kalau masa bercinta ni pon, kita boleh nmpak keburukan dia, let say like kuat jealous ke, suka marah ke, imagine bila dah kahwin.
of course it'll be worse..
do you really think u can bear all that when, even before u get married your boyfriend/girlfriend's attitude already giving u headache??
Do u dears???
That's why islam is such a beautiful religion..
Ketetapan Allah itu sangat baik, sangat sempurna..
So why do we even bother to deny it??
Who did we think we are to deny Allah's provision??????
siapa kita nak menafikan hak Allah sebagai pencipta, sebagai tuhan sekalian makhluk????
Subhanallah....
"tapi saya sgt sygkan dia, sy cintakan dia, dan saya nak nikahi dia"
Well my dear muslim brothers and sisters, couple is not the way...
For The Guys
For The Girls
I hope this post, will help you guys see clearly why couple is haram..
I also once involved.. But alhamdulillah... Allah had gave me the light and hidayah to embrace the truth..
I tahu... sebenarnya, hati kita ni dah ckp bnyk kali dah ape yg kita buat ni salah, berdosa.. sesungguhnya, kata-kata hati nurani tu tak pernah menipu..
Tapi bisikan nafsu tu lg kuat..
We kept on living in denial..
Sampai bila nak mcm tu??
hmmm... Sesungguhnya ajal, maut di tangan Allah..
Tak takut ke kalau tak sempat bertaubat??
Wallahualam....
p/s: please watch the video yg i share bawah ni.. hopefully you'll understand more about what i've been babbling berjela-jela tu.. enjoy... :D and Assalamualaikum...
